What do I do when I have lost someone special to me? Losing a precious family member, a cherished friend, or someone really dear to our heart may take some time for us to heal from this devastating pain that’s in our hearts. The period of healing may even take a lot of focus energy and change our lifestyle in order for us to get some handles on coping with healthy grieving. If you really want to help yourself to heal healthily, then here are three positive thoughts about how to deal with grieve appropriately.