DEAR ABBY: My brother-in-law thinks he is good with his hands. He built a deck on the back of his house, and it’s obvious that he’s not a professional. My husband and I have never sat on his deck because it doesn’t look safe. (Others have said the same thing.) He bragged to me about how he got away with not having to pull any permits and never had the city inspect it while he was building it. He also didn’t have it inspected when it was finished.